All My Life I Just Want To Be Accepted.

All my life, all I've ever wanted is to be accepted!

 

An amazing client shared this after we started our coaching sessions. 

 

I've been coaching her for a while and ma sha Allah tabarakAllah she's intelligent! She's smart! Excelled academically! She's a doer! A mover. A leader. A trailblazer!

 

Yet she finds herself seeking the validation of others! 

 

Never feeling enough so she's always looking for the next quick fix.The next opportunity to grow. Next opportunity to excel. Next opportunity to uplevel. She is mentally, emotionally and physically overwhelmed!

 

She created boundaries with others but they never respected them so she found herself struggling to cope with the emotional baggage they sent her way.

 

And that's the thing! Creating boundaries doesn't work if we haven't healed! There is a reason we are people pleasers. Why we struggle to create boundaries. Why we prefer to let others have their way despite the harm it causes us than to assertively express ourselves. 

 

And until we heal, it will be a continuous vicious cycle that never ends.

 

Healing shouldn't take years. Once you get to the root cause, it should be easy to heal from it and move forward thereafter!

 

In my 12 week 'How to say NO without feeling guilty' Coaching programme I coach you to do this in just 12 weeks in sha Allah.